mrwulf

Completely integrated with the wordpress menu system so your theme’s menu menu styling is used.
Basic log in/out and register menu items that are only visible when appropriate.
Awesome custom menu item type will let you link to any page that requires the username as part of the url (example.com/members//messages). Tons of tags can be used to customize the menu text: 
* User Info: username, firstname, lastname, displayname 
* BuddyPress counts: unreadmessagecount, friendcount, groupcount 
* BuddyPress counts that hide when zero: (unreadmessagecount), (friendcount), (groupcount) 
* BuddyPress/WordPress avatar: avatar, avatar-thumb, avatar-mini
This plugin works great with “Menu Items Visibility Control” to only show menu items to certain roles/levels. 
Also, try “WP ToolBar Removal” to totally replace the ugly unthemed wordpress/buddypress menu.

BP Direct Menus

Add real menu items that go directly to buddypress pages! Add a profile dropdown with avatar, message counts, and more- fully customizable.

Jupitercow

Jake Snyder

Creates a log in page at /login/ and manages password recovery and user notification feedback for the log in process. Everything gets managed within your page.php template or page-login.php template in order to fit into the theme better.
By default, this plugin creates a virtual page, but if you add a page with slug ‘login’, the plugin will begin to use that.
<h4>Add a redirect for logged in users</h4>
Controls where logged in users go when they login or when they visit the ‘/login/’ page. You can either return the post_id of the post/page to send them to, or the slug of the post/page to send them to.
<pre><code>// Redirect using post id
add_filter( 'sewn/login/logged_in_redirect', 'custom_sewn_logged_in_redirect_id' );
function custom_sewn_logged_in_redirect_id()
{
 return 4;
}



// Redirect using post slug
add_filter( 'sewn/login/logged_in_redirect', 'custom_sewn_logged_in_redirect_slug' );
function custom_sewn_logged_in_redirect_slug()
{
 return 'post-slug';
}
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<h4>Sewn In Notification Box Support</h4>
If you install the <a href="https://wordpress.org/plugins/sewn-in-notifications/" rel="ugc">Sewn In Notification Box</a>, this plugin will start using that. This is handy to keep all of your notifications in a centralized location.

Sewn In Template Log In

Creates a log in page at /login/ and manages password recovery and user notification feedback for the log in process.

BP Direct Menus vs Sewn In Template Log In