blueinstyle

Options include showing comments from specific categories, or excluding categories.
Exclude users from comment list by email address.
Uses a template to display comments exactly the way you want.
Limit amount of words or characters to display in each comment.
Include user’s Gravatar or Facebook avatar in comment list.
Create unlimited comment lists each with their own unique settings and options.
Support and Feature requests are on my forums at http://justmyecho.com/forums/

Customized Recent Comments

Display recent comments on your blog with complete control over the layout and format of comments.

udarmo

Shows a list of most recently added BP activity comments.

BuddyPress Last Comments Widget

Shows a list of most recently added BP activity comments.

Customized Recent Comments vs BuddyPress Last Comments Widget