blueinstyle

Options include showing comments from specific categories, or excluding categories.
Exclude users from comment list by email address.
Uses a template to display comments exactly the way you want.
Limit amount of words or characters to display in each comment.
Include user’s Gravatar or Facebook avatar in comment list.
Create unlimited comment lists each with their own unique settings and options.
Support and Feature requests are on my forums at http://justmyecho.com/forums/

Customized Recent Comments

Display recent comments on your blog with complete control over the layout and format of comments.

Chris Roberts

This plugin adds a widget which displays your recent comments, grouped by post.

Grouped Comments Widget

Adds a widget which displays recent comments, grouped by post.

Customized Recent Comments vs Grouped Comments Widget